I know, I know. I owe an update on my hair. I will get around to it eventually...let's just say I ended up not going drastic. I went with some long bangs and more layering around my face to lessen the weight a bit. I think it helped.
But anyway, that isn't what has been on my mind lately. What HAS been on my mind is the peanut's birthday party...which is tomorrow. Technically, her birthday is a week from tomorrow but we will be out of town that weekend for (HUGE SHOCK) a football game. Side note that I've informed the hubster birthdays do take precedence over football...it just worked out that we could do the party this weekend. Anyway, one might say that I've never been the party planner. In fact I've informed Jen that when she gets married she needs to just tell me what it is she wants (as far as showers/bachelorette parties etc.) and I will make sure that is what happens. This is not because I'm a bad friend...it's because I care about what she wants. And because I'm a poor social planner. In fact, I ordered pizza the one and only time I've had to personally feed a group as big as we are expecting tomorrow.
So, here I have been trying to plan a birthday party for the peanut. Granted, I realize she will never remember any of it - although she will have pictures to look back at - but I still want it to be special without going overboard. We ARE going simple. I reserved a pavilion at a local park and posted up an invite on the calendar of my Mommy Group. That was easy enough. It's the details that have been swimming around in my head at night, keeping me from sleeping well. Not that I've been worrying about it...that's just what happens when I have something on my mind.
But you know what's funny? Things have just sort of fallen into place and it hasn't been as hard as I expected. I suppose I shouldn't be too confident until AFTER the party...this is me we are talking about and there's only so much room in my brain at any given time. So, I'm sure I've forgotten SOMETHING. But, I think the important stuff is covered.
I found cute little favors (Halloween themed rubber duckies and bottles of Bubble Magic), although my favorite thing that we are giving out has to be the baby pumpkins. Each child will get their own baby pumpkin and we will write their name on it (actually, Jen will write their name on it assuming she doesn't have to stay home to deal with house issues - otherwise it will be my handwriting). Me being me, I couldn't resist breaking into the pain pens that I picked up to write on the pumpkins with and I ended up decorating one for Paige. I think it turned out pretty cute even with my handwriting.
We have enough tableware for everyone (in orange and green), table cloths...I even dipped into my artsy/crafty side and made the peanut a happy birthday sign (which evolved into being after the local Party City's printer was broken and I couldn't find a pumpkin sign anywhere that wasn't a jack-o-lantern). Even the food came together easily enough (granted with a little help my from Mom and MIL) and I can say that NO ONE will be leaving hungry. If you are coming, save room for food. We are planning hamburgers, hot dogs, mac & cheese, pumpkin bread, chips, cupcakes, punch and soda. And LOTS of it.
So, now I just need to stop all the thoughts racing through my head and try to get some rest. It will be an early start tomorrow to get everything done in time. I can rest easy, though, because even if things don't turn out absolutly perfect (and they never do, do they?) I have plenty of years ahead of me to get in some much needed practice.